The latest headline reads:

Accenture severs ties with Tiger Woods

I say this is pure Bullshit at it’s best! So this company that makes it’s business off of taking people’s hard earned money and supposedly turning it into more money so you can spend it before you die is saying that Tiger’s image is NOT the image they feel should represent their company.

Guess Diddy or 50 can apply for that position now…ROFLMAO

The the big “to-do” over the weekend was Tiger’s announcement that he was stepping down from Golf to take care of matters at home. And what was the press and PGA more concerned about? THAT DAMN DOLLAR LOST…even though they say they understand his decision…BULLSHIT!!!!

I am gonna keep this one real…This coming Saturday will be 2 weeks that the same damn thing happen to me and trust me when I say this…I like Tiger am experiencing the same kind of response in the home. I am sure his wife is not speaking to him (just like mine isn’t), and I am sure he is feeling like “it doesn’t matter what I say (or try to say) she has already decided how she wants to feel” so why waste good energy fussing and fighting because that is all it’s gonna be. And what is so wild about this is that this subject is bigger than the headlines “President Obama Sends 10,000 Postal workers to Afghanistan” or “Michael Jackson found alive in Cuba with TuPac” or even “Bilderburg Group extends invitation to Salahi’s to crash next gathering“.

I am not making any validations for what has occured with Tiger but I do understand a man’s challenge in dealing with the abundance of offers from other woman and the challenges of STAYING MARRIED.
(For those that don’t know, think they know, ever wondered, or just STRAIGHT FORGOT see video below)

I may not be as rich (monetarily might I add) but I am a guy that get’s offers. I have had more “if you weren’t married” comments and this one jealous bitch-assed dude decides he wants to find out why his lady got guys numbers in her phone. He decides it would be in his favor to call my wife after sending 5 explicit text messages and basically snitching so the fix was in before I got there he had her on the phone making it sound like I had already had sex with her but neither one of them can prove I did and this is happening to me by a guy who has been hooked on crack and is actually cheating on his wife and it is a known fact. Is that why I got blood pricks on my finger?

And what is even wilder is my everyday routine is go to work, and come straight home. And in this one instance of making a bad decision it seems like I hit the RED button. Aw well it don’t matter. This world is a “Guilty until proven Innocent” kinda world. Somebody tell me how it is the woman involved can get paid to share their story, apologize to his wife & children (as if the children even really care…THEY ARE CHILDREN DAMNIT…give me a break), and no one is questioning their motives for consenting to indulge Tiger? Thank you Joy Behar…

Because you can say what you want about Tiger, but the woman consented to something. I have heard affair and possibly sex but I have yet to see any other evidence proving there was any physical contact, I haven’t seen any sex tapes or photos. I heard a voicemail and that sounded like a dude who knew whatever going on was about to come to a head. Another question…what about the people in his camp that were possibly aware of this? Couldn’t somebody in that camp grow a set and look T-Dub in the face and say “C’mon SON…you know this ain’t right, plus you know you are gonna get caught“!?

I mean let’s keep this shit REALLY…REAL!!! Woman are much better cheaters than men will ever be. Plus even if they don’t cheat physically they can do a mental cheat that blow any man’s ego clean up FOREVER!!! Shit anytime you find your relationship being less affectionate, less communicative then trust something is wrong. I should know. But it will only be corrected when both parties are willing to sit with a mediator and address what could be the issue. Not get in and point fingers on WHO is wrong but, sit and discuss if WHAT is wrong can be fixed or not. Wrong is not just physical but it also mental and emotional too. And both parties can be wrong for one, two, or all of them. Here is what really gets the hair on my neck to stand up…As much as Tiger has openly claimed he is Blackanese he is being treated like most black men that happens to cross that line. Tiger I have said it before and I will say it again…if you can’t get all your money from where ever it is, put it in a suitcase, and keep it wherever you are…then the money AIN’T really yours!!!!

It is sad that we (Black People) have treated kats like him as if they were saviors and spokespersons for the entire race. I mean look at all the prominent black men who have slipped Jesse Jackson, Michael Jordan,  Eric Benet, LL Cool J, Kobe Bryant and Magic Johnson (and he has to carry that with him more than the others) just to name a few. And they were all held to the same standard as Tiger was. But we were quick to forgive them or at least they didn’t get as much press time as Tiger is. I am not just speaking from the perspective of someone who hears this shit on the news way too much but also as a man who has been in the situation too. And by all accounts am still in it.

Will he ever be forgiven? For the most part he has already been forgiven. At least by those who understand where he is at. Will his marriage ever be normal again? That I doubt very seriously because as much as he has begged for forgiveness it will never be forgotten. So technically he is not fully forgiven. That is the power of the mind. We surpress what we want and keep alive what we choose. As long as there is someone to keep talking about it, it will never die. I don’t blame him for not wanting to be in front of a camera and speaking because more than anything that just keep the pain alive.

And if you think for one minute he has no pain….you are sadly mistaken. Men….REAL MEN…who end up wanting to face stuff like this so they can correct their internal personal lives, and make ammends for the hurt they caused someone go through much pain. Because they have had to look at themselves in the mirror. As much as my wife doesn’t say one word to me, I choose not to say anything either because it is opening my mouth at this time that can cause what is already a hostile situation to be worse. Sometime you have to know when to actually fight.

I was wrong for responding, lying, & leaving but I did not have any physical contact with the person in question. Would I have if in fact it was true…I honestly have no idea and I am really grateful I did not get in that place to find out because the pain would have been even worse. So now all I can do is continue to come to work, hope that I get hired permanently (because that alone is a stress because I am underpaid with no benefits to cover my family), and try my best to heal from it all. Having to talk about this in a public fourm such as this one is not easy or fun.

But it does take great humility to do it. I owe no one any explanation on the situation and have the right not to talk about it but it too is my public decoration on my support to T-Dub and my speaking out on the experience first hand. Naw shortly you ain’t no slut…you just another hungry bitch that had the choice to not indulge at all but you did indulge and now you are going to capitalize on him while he is down. For real…his wife should be putting her foot down your throat like she is his.

But that is how society has set it up. She was a victim and he was wrong…SAD!!!

Keep your head up T-Dub!!!